Thursday, March 3, 2011
My best friend just dumped me
I finished up my call (which was an amazing help, thank you) and ran inside to process my day with my best friend and catch up on life. Last time we hung out, we ran all over town, grabbed some food, went ice skating, all the usual random crap. Same guy I spend my free time with, travel the US with, a big part of my life.
He asked me a few questions, to which I responded honestly, as I always do.
I was then informed that until I "kill the spirit of sexual immorality" in my life he could no longer hang out with me, talk to me or have anything to do with me.
What could I say? I just watched him walk away.
WTF just happened? Our lives have been an open book to each other since the day we met. There is little to nothing we have not shared and discussed. I mean nothing. We even talk about all the stuff you aren't supposed to ever talk to another soul about, much less another guy.
Suddenly I am no longer fit to be his brother and friend?
It hurts a lot.
Fuck churches and the way they warp peoples minds and hearts. I realize mentally that this is probably all about him and has nothing to do with me, but still.
What do I do?